From the category archives:

Stop and Rest

Something about summer and the heat and all the blooming flowers are bringing me into my feminine power. So it is with great pleasure that I introduce the work of another woman exploring what it means to be a sexual being, a sensuous lady, a vulnerable human. Ev’Yan Nasman writes the blog Sex, Love & [...]

{ 3 comments }

Sometimes what we all need in life is a few music videos. Here are three for you today. Willing to travel far to find your superman? Take some tips from these ladies. In case you need lessons in how to gaze to seduce, look no further. Watch and learn. And if you want to take [...]

{ 2 comments }

Last week I spent all morning rolling around my living room floor exploring gesture, emotion, and gaze. What do you do for fun? My excuse for this behavior was to prepare for a performance of dance, movement, and poetry at the Vermont Governor’s Institute on the Arts tonight. (I know you all want to come [...]

{ 5 comments }

It seemed like such a romantic quest…such a good fairytale to make come true. I so wanted my life to tie up in a bow…but the awkward, messy, unthought through details have done me in. When I was a little girl I imagined my life before me like a view onto a magical land of [...]

{ 5 comments }

Today is my birthday. I’m turning thirty five. My mom says she saw a shooting star the night I was conceived. I bet there was a shooting star  the night you were conceived as well. I notice two common trends in how people relate to their birthdays. 1. They down play it, don’t mention it, [...]

{ 3 comments }

If you’re not happy with your relationship to money, doing nothing will not make it better. It’s time to get cuddly with the dollars & cents – no longing glances, get intimate. –Tara Gentile It is official, I’m breaking up with my bad inner boyfriend with the last name, Money-Talk-Is-To-Be-Avoided-At-All-Turns and immediately walking down the [...]

{ 0 comments }

So if either of these subjects scare you, embarrass you, or excite you I suggest you take a few breaths before reading further. These subjects certainly scare me, embarrass me, and excite me. And writing to you about them terrifies me. So I’m just going to hide behind this Ani Difranco song before continuing. I [...]

{ 5 comments }

We are walking along in our lives and all of a sudden our hearts bloom; whatever we may have been holding against our heart, however we may have been guarding it, we let go without effort and find ourselves full and connected.                 Maybe we are suddenly gazing [...]

{ 2 comments }

I recently declared I’m ready for partner love in my life and I publicly set the date. And I am. But as I grow and reach toward this possibility I am delighting in my single life. I have been a single lady for many years now. At times I’ve complained about this, mostly in the [...]

{ 0 comments }

My back seized up two weeks ago pinching my sciatic nerve. I can’t describe this pain, but if I were to paint it I would use intense primary colors. This pain was bold. And big. And left me shaken and fierce. Now many days later I’m still in discomfort, but with only moments and waves [...]

{ 3 comments }